obv the easy way is finding ppl to hook up with but that just feels so empty to me. I always end up being the one dealing with the pain while the other person just moves on like it’s nothing. I hate those nights when your mind is racing and jealousy is eating you alive. I didn’t know what to do at first but I realized looking successful is one thing but actually being successful hits different. Working out making money focusing on schoolall that feels like the real way to heal. what do y’all do to cope?
Last updated on:2025-02-23T21:56:52+05:30
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also try chatgpt when there is sos "missing-her" urge
I listen to music a lot especially songs that vibe with my feelings cuz it’s too overwhelming to connect directly with my emotions
I talk to my friends a lot and try to hang out with them as much as I can
I see my therapist every 2 weeks
I’m rewatching True Blood cuz I loved it when I first watched it
And laughing! I’m into comedian podcasts memes and joking around with my friends and bros
And what’s been helping me the most the last 2 weeks is this old friend who messaged me just to joke about my FB profile pic and now we talk almost every day about random stuff. It’s like I have a safe space to be silly and emotional too
kinda stereotypical but the gym fr. Get your health and mental state on point. Once your mind’s right again don’t go chasing another relationship. People aren’t lying when they say the right one shows up when you least expect it it’s actually so real. Just let time and selfcare do their thing and heal that broken heart. You got this
What’s helped me the most is finding creative stuff to keep me distracted staying busy at work and trying to find little moments of joy.
Some days I just lay in bed and cry but I try not to stay in that space. Accepting that I’m not the girl he looks forward to seeing anymore kinda makes it easier to be less torn up. Sounds weird, but once I realize I’m not loved the same way I start to detach.
I’m still heartbroken and it hurts like hell, but I know I deserve the kind of love I actually want. I trust the universe to bring me that person when I’m ready.
bruh who even says that lol. I just broke up a few days ago and I haven’t even thought about that stuff. just feel lowkey sick. only time I’m not sad is when I’m with my friends cuz they keep me distracted
don’t hook up with anyone or get involved till you’re actually ready
thinking you’re ready after a breakup then ending up feeling empty is the worst fr wouldn’t even wish it on my worst enemy. you think you got this till you’re just lying there wishing it was over then crying when you get home
Take in what you've learned about yourself and what you're willing to deal with moving forward.
Focus on getting your body and your bank balance in a better place.
Work on strengthening your friendships family vibes faith (if you’re into that) and your independence.
Make time for a hobby and try some new ones.
And don’t ignore your emotions. Some days you’ll be sad others mad maybe a little nostalgic. Just have a plan to get through Valentine’s.
There’s really no good answer it’s been months and I’ve tried looking and talking to everyone but it feels like I’m just annoying them now. Like I’m weird cause I can’t move on.
Therapy and sticking with it. Inner work. Journaling. Selfcare. Crying... a lot of crying. Just processing the grief.
I was lowkey gonna write the same thing
@SaucyUD I think talk therapy is so good
@Xopo012 Honestly I don't really think therapy does much. Just putting it out there, I don't think it helps all that much.