my girl who i was/am fully in love with ended things outta nowhere a little over 2 months ago n it’s been insanely hard to deal w ngl.. a few weeks ago she removed me off everything so it’d be easier for me to move on but bro it has not been easier at all. today she mailed me my hoodie back n ik it’s pathetic but it smells like her n it just brought back every single emotion like she broke up w me yesterday. ive been heartbroken before but this one hits like 1000x worse bc i really thought i was gonna marry this girl.. like we just made sense together. but i’ve been trying to move on been talking to some other girls n this one girl asked to hangout soon n i said okay but idk even tho my ex was the one who ended things removed me mailed our stuff instead of meeting up.. it still feels like i’m cheating on her just for planning a date w someone else
Last updated on:2025-02-12T15:42:09+05:30
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I'd say stay off dating apps for a bit, doesn't seem like you're ready to meet someone new. Take your time to heal cry scream whatever you need. Wouldn't be fair to someone else if you're not emotionally there yet.
Sorry wish I had better advice.
Facts. Speaking as the girl who got her heart wrecked by a guy still stuck on his ex and all that baggage take your time before bringing someone else into it. If you can hit up therapy process what went down and find your own closure if possible. It’s not fair to her. People think jumping into something new helps you move on but nah moving on happens when you actually do the work heal for real and are ready to shut that door.
@AromaBY appreciate the advice man this girl wants to go bowling and we both said we ain’t looking for anything serious so i kinda just wanna go for the vibes you know