That’s it. She treated me like trash. All our mutual friends say she didn’t deserve me. It’s been 7 months since I found out and we broke up. She says she only met him once while we were together but idk what to believe. We were together for 2 years.
she was selfish ungrateful a liar manipulative and never put in the same effort.
I felt like I was always walking on eggshells. She wasn’t committed like I was. The whole relationship felt onesided.
I know I didn’t lose anything real. Yesterday before I knew this I was fine. But now I’m just mad upset and feeling betrayed all over again.
Did I really mean that little to her? Did all my love effort and commitment for 2 years mean nothing? How is she just moving on so easily while I’m stuck alone trying to heal?
I shouldn’t still be hurting… but I am.
Last updated on:2025-02-13T14:22:45+05:30
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Same situation as you but my ex-fiancée got pregnant had me thinking it was mine. Then she broke things off and I was still excited for our daughter only to find out the month she was due that she already had the baby. No heads up no proof just told me the kid looked nothing like me and belonged to some dude she cheated with. I didn’t even know she cheated till then. Her excuse? My pathological liar ex (first person to ever cheat on me) kept telling her I was sneaking around with them which was straight up nonsense. I'd rather get locked up for beating them to a pulp than ever cheat but she believed it. She cheated cause she couldn’t wrap her head around the fact that I’d never do that even if my life depended on it. And now she’s just dodging accountability and avoiding the mess she made.
so sorry ur dealing with this.. hope u find someone soon who makes u forget all this 🥺💛
You never really know what you got till it’s gone.. one day she’s gonna be stuck in some trash relationship getting zero love n attention n guess what? You’ll be living rent free in her head. Karma’s wild like that. You’re the one she fumbled. Lowkey? Be glad it didn’t drag out longer.
So true. She’ll never be the one that got away for me but tbh I treated her in a way where I can see myself being that... or more like the one that got given away.
Checks out tbh. Anytime we had problems she’d just dip instead of talking it out or fixing things. First time we broke up she was on dating apps instantly. Now she’s marrying the guy she cheated on me with. Feels like she’s just speeding through life to avoid facing what she did and her own issues.
We all deal with things differently and moving on isn’t a straight path. It hits different for everyone. She might still be healing but at the end of the day it’s her call if she feels done being sad. We all bounce back at our own pace. Not saying what she did was right but if she sees that guy as the one and not you you gotta accept it. It’s not about how long y’all were together—years don’t define it it’s about the life you put into those years.
Good luck to him lol he’s gonna need it
It’s just straight up facts
I feel this deep fr. Like after years and 3 serious relationships every single one ending in cheating I just don’t think I can fully love again. I can’t. My heart’s wrecked. I’m literally crying typing this rn I can’t go through it again. it feels like my heart’s just gonna give out. I’m just a loser that’s it. 😔
Nah that’s just leveling up 😆
Just think about the level of clownery here... bro’s marrying a woman who straight up admitted to cheating on her husband and she’s marrying a guy with such trash morals he wrecked a whole family for some action. FYI studies say marriages like this flop like 98% of the time so don’t even stress she’s just lining up for Divorce Round 2.
Lowkey glad we never actually got married. We were engaged but broke up cuz she just wouldn’t compromise and this time I wasn’t about to cave. Gave it another shot 6 months later lasted like 3 months. Not gonna lie I really tried to love her again but I just couldn’t. Couldn’t trust her either. Her own sister was the one who told me she was cheating said it had been happening even before we got back together. No proof tho. When I confronted my ex she admitted to meeting up with the dude while we were together but claimed it was just once. After all the lies, wouldn’t even be shocked if it had been going on for months.