I’ve known her since 4th grade, we always been close but got even closer after she broke up w her bf (who was also my bsf) around Halloween 24. After that we started hanging out way more, like every day sometimes 2-3 times a day. Every night to smoke.
When we became friends I had zero feelings, never even thought abt anything past friendship. I wasn’t tryna be that dude waiting for her to be single just to slide in. That’s not me. But turns out I get attached way too easy. Seeing each other every day getting closer without even realizing the bond just kept building.
At first when she started seeing other guys I didn’t care at all. But slowly, it started eating me up till it got unbearable. Watching someone I fell for be all over other dudes… that shit hurt. So last week I told her I needed distance to focus on myself that I wasn’t happy w my life n didn’t want anyone caught up in it. I suck at lying tho so she probably caught on that it was really bc I had feelings.
Now she found out n hasn’t texted back since. I been tryna convince her there’s nothing there but I think I already lost her for good. This pain not going away.
Last updated on:2025-02-13T15:39:20+05:30
Comments (5)
Maybe a little distance is good for both of you.
Don't overthink it. Easier said than done I know.
Maybe she needs space too. Give her time to process.
that's rough. Friendship breakups are the worst.
Major L situation.