I just wanna say I love my boyfriend sooo much. I’d do anything for him. We met in 2023 at work and I swore I wouldn’t date a coworker. But we built a solid friendship first shared a lot and I even told him I’d been single for two years. Over time I started catching feelings but kept reminding myself to stay focused on school work and personal growth.
Then he told me he liked me too and I realized I felt the same. After thinking about it I decided to give it a shot. A month later he asked me to be his girlfriend and I met his family. I saw how close he was with them and I admired that a lot.
But this is when things started.
Since we worked together people noticed us especially one coworker. She was super flirtatious always throwing herself at guys for attention. I had a friend at work who’d been there longer and always had my back. One day she said she had a bad feeling about that girl talking to my boyfriend like she was trying to get his number. I asked him about it and he reassured me nothing was going on so I trusted him. Without trust what’s the point right?
But he left out the fact that he and she exchanged numbers.
Over time I started feeling something wasn’t right. It wasn’t insecurity but like he wasn’t respecting me when I wasn’t around. He’d act weird when Amy was around but I didn’t fully realize it at the time. Eventually I gave in to my gut and checked his phone. What I saw broke me he’d been cheating on me the whole time.
When I confronted him his response was I love you I can’t lose you you mean so much to me you’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me.
That was in Sep 2024 and even now in 2025 it still stings. I try to move on but that betrayal is still in my head. We’ve been in a good place recently but deep down I can’t fully trust him. It feels like I have PTSD from what I saw on his phone stuff I wasn’t supposed to see. It made me question who I was really with.
Now since I found out he’s been distant. And honestly... what now? I think it’s time to let him go.
Last updated on:2025-02-17T14:02:19+05:30
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Mine was with all kinds of people the whole time constantly preying on my trauma triggers and playing games with me. The whole fam was involved, they even messed with each other and screwed each other over. It was messed up I’ve never met people like that in person, so sick and twisted. I can’t even say enough but when the real story drops y’all gotta check it out.