I was with my bf for like 1.5 years. Not super long but definitely full of memories good and bad.
We kinda vibed? Idk everyone said we did tho.
But I just got tired of him always being so egotistical like he always put himself first without thinking about how I felt.
And obviously the dealbreaker was him being polygamous while I’m all about monogamy. Dude was always talking about hooking up with other people and I just couldn’t deal with it anymore. Not my thing.
Now he’s acting like nothing happened putting on a front in public which makes me look dumb as hell. Guess he’s not as great as I thought.
Either way we both got hurt. I’m not wishing bad things for him just wanna heal and move on.
Last updated on:2025-04-18T11:49:50+05:30
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choose you . as much as we love someone it sucks when we see all the actions that show they are self centered , selfish and incapable of putting someone before themselves. I've been through this for much longer & my wasted time, but i loved him so much and i know he loved me too but what i wanted he couldn't give me , it was his loyalty and his respect. be happy that you are not allowing this to go on for 5 years like I did. 👏 be proud of yourself . trust me I know it fuxken sucks I barely left him in January and it still hurts and I still want him every fucken day every night I love him so much and I prolly always will. but none of that matters bcuz I have to remember how I feel when I'm sitting there alone night after night crying without him and he could care less about how he makes me feel . I didn't think I would ever leave him cuz he is so handsome but I made a choice to love me more how stupid was I to actually love him more than me. fuck that I had to love me more than him it made no sense . so I literally left the city we're from moved with my mom really far away and just haven't went back or seen him or talked to him , girl I even had to break up with his mom to leave him. but if I take one look in his eyes I'm done. if I could heal from this you can too , everyday I'm healing more and more and u can too. Just love yourself and value yourself fr. you deserve so much more.
He's probably just trying to save face. Don't let him bother you.
Don't let him gaslight you. You're not the one in the wrong.
He sounds like a total narcissist.
Putting himself first is a red flag.
u did the right thing. Your happiness matters most.