like 2 years ago my ex (35f) broke up w me but kept me around.. i (32m) was wrecked when she ended it and i’ve been tryna get back w her since. she’d text call talk to me every day like nothing changed.. until these past couple months. i really thought we were good n that i had a chance so i kept spending time w her n everything. now i just feel dumb n ngl it gets to me sometimes..
in december i got her gifts for christmas like i always did. pulled up to her place the day before to surprise her n she looked legit shocked i was even there. gave her the gifts n she hit me w a i can’t invite u in i have company.. at 9am. didn’t think much of it cuz i had work in an hour anyway. then i asked if we could spend christmas together since we always did for the past 5 yrs. she said no.. so i was like ok what about new years? told her i wanted a fresh start w her in my life again n all that. she straight up said she couldn’t cuz she’s been seeing someone for a YEAR. bro that threw me. like how u got me spending all this time w u, going camping amusement parks, hanging w ur family all summer.. when u been w someone else this whole time?? that hurt like hell. so i just cut it off n started focusing on myself.
then end of jan she started working w me again. she used to work w me before so it caught me off guard. i was happy at first but now i’m just sad all the time.. she acts like we’re just friends but w that lil flirty energy. the other day she asked me to grab food after work so i tried bringing up what happened n she just hit me w never change i’m glad u’re in my life like?? that’s it??
this whole thing is just messing w my head.. can’t focus at work can’t stop thinking about her. she flirts in these subtle ways n it just drags me down. i want her. i only see her. idk. i try to avoid her but she always finds me or texts asking if i’m good when she doesn’t see me. i just miss her sm n it’s hard. i know it’s been 2 years but she’s still around still asks about me n my life n now i gotta see her at work every day.. idk i don’t even need advice i just had to get this out
Last updated on:2025-02-19T14:40:38+05:30
Comments (8)
That's some emotional manipulation.
Get out of there.
She's living rent-free in your head.
Evict her.
She's breadcrumbing you. Don't fall for it.
That's a whole situationship mess. Unpack that baggage.
Bro ghost her. For real just block.
That's toxic AF. You deserve way better.
Big yikes. That's some serious mixed signals.
She seems like an attention seeker bro. Have some selfrespect and just forget about her you can do way better.