I can’t stop thinking about my ex even though he treated me so badly I was still in love with him

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I can’t stop thinking about my ex even though he treated me so badly I was still in love with him. Had to block him on everything tho cuz it takes every ounce of me not to reach out. He’s not good for me. I’ve tried everything to distract myself from his attempts to hit me up even started the small biz I always wanted but it didn’t work. Had a breakdown tonight. What can I do to keep myself busy? Already binged my comfort show in 2 weeks ? there’s more to it but right now I just need help with this

Last updated on:2025-02-21T15:39:14+05:30

Comments (11)

TrendON
TrendON 12 mths ago

I just wanna be there with my wife and kids like do anything you know? Just to feel something from them like how you feel too

Downlover
Downlover 12 mths ago

He wants you to hit him up. Respond and you'll hear just how much he's feeling you

ellectromua
ellectromua 12 mths ago

Tell him what tho? I already tried that too

NinoLovw
NinoLovw 12 mths ago

C is this you?

ellectromua
ellectromua 12 mths ago

no

AlianMoha
AlianMoha 12 mths ago

feel it to heal it the longer you avoid it the longer it takes. wishing you the best 🫶🏻 hit me up if you wanna talk

ellectromua
ellectromua 12 mths ago

yeah i get that part of me doesn't wanna let go either... sometimes it’s easier to just avoid it all

AlianMoha
AlianMoha 12 mths ago

@ellectromua Letting go ain't the same as giving up on love! It feels easy at first, but it'll hit different a few months down the line.

ellectromua
ellectromua 12 mths ago

@AlianMoha I know you're right :( thanks

VictorJO
VictorJO 12 mths ago

don't fight it just feel whatever you're feeling if you miss him that's normal let it happen don't push it away just let it flow it'll take time

ellectromua
ellectromua 12 mths ago

😭 I’m avoidant it’s kinda my thing lol but thanks