So my bf broke up with me after 2 years said he loves me thinks we're soulmates but doesn't feel I'm the one

So my bf broke up with me after 2 years said he loves me thinks we're soulmates but doesn't feel I'm the one. No clear explanation.
When we were 9 months in he asked for space said he needed to find himself and feel free then after two months we hooked up again, got back together and he said it was a situationship for a while before we made it official again.
Now the cycle repeats—3 weeks ago he asked for space cause he was feeling overwhelmed and needed to think. He became this emotionless potato, and after a week of silence we talked. He was uncertain, but I told him I love you I’m here let’s be vulnerable and grow together. We slept together that day then he went distant again.
He never said I need space but I'm still here for this. After a few more weeks of him being numb I told him I needed to step out. I had planned a surprise trip for Valentine's but had to cancel. I just wanted to be with someone who actually wanted to be loved. His reply was Yeah you deserve someone who deserves to love you. The universe will find them for you. I want to be friends you're incredible but I need to find my path.
The thing is I love him like really love him and I’m hurting. I wanted this to work so bad. We did so much together but I feel like it’s all on him. I don’t think I could’ve done anything different he’s just a dumb avoidant who doesn’t know how to handle his feelings. Is this normal? I’m pissed off at his stupidity cause we had something special.
And now he's sending me those how are you? messages super chill.
I’m kinda hooking up already but it doesn’t help lol
The thing is I see so many people questioning if they’re enough or if they did something wrong when someone breaks up with them but I don’t feel that way and I’m still hurting like hell
Sorry for the rant but it sucks that he says he wants to be friends and it hurts seeing how unbothered he is!!

Last updated on:2025-02-24T13:05:23+05:30