it's been 3 months since he broke up with me and I honestly thought we were in this forever. then he hit me with the I don't know myself I need to be single to figure it out" excuse. at the very end he just seemed so distant and like he didn't care it honestly shattered me. the chance of us getting back together is like zero. I miss him sooo much been thinking about him more than usual these last couple weeks.
idk why but now I’m stressing about if he's seeing someone else. the thought of it is just... ugh can't even explain. it was supposed to be me. I've never been this hurt and for this long. I just wanna forget I ever met him forget he ever broke my heart.
Last updated on:2025-02-25T13:44:40+05:30
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hey idk if i wanna say this but that’s probably why he dipped tbh. never trust what they say
I feel like this comment was lowkey unhelpful lol. She's just hurt no need for that.
@Vakoos22 You’re totally entitled to your opinion but I’m all about facts... your generation’s got enough people coddling, but what I said is real and will help her be smarter and stronger in her next relationship. There’s too many women stuck in toxic situations because they relied on dudes to take care of them. No job skills no way out. Women gotta be tough nowadays so they’re not just run over and sometimes that means not everything's gonna be all sunshine and rainbows. Anyway hope you have a blessed day 🥰
it's been months and i still can't believe she's out there with other guys. breaks my heart over and over thinking about her giving love to someone else. we were supposed to get married this year... i can't believe this is my life now
Better than getting married and losing a ton of money on top of that
same... he dumped me almost 6 weeks ago and it's been tough. i know he's with someone else now that's why he dumped me lol his dream girl suddenly wanted him so i was outta the picture! now he's in love after playing me for months and totally blindsiding me. never again am i ignoring red flags for sure. i've never felt so heartbroken.
I feel you op, been there... it's rough but u gotta sit with those feelings and let time heal your soul. It takes me a minute to feel better but talking to ppl really helped me. Hope u feel better soon 💛
Maybe it's hitting different 'cause Valentine’s is coming up. For us dumpees it’s usually a huge mental hurdle, right? Our brains try to fill the gaps with stuff that may or may not be true.
And yeah it stings like crazy thinking about them with someone else doing the things we used to do. My chest gets tight I lose my appetite and there's this weird knot in my stomach. But we just gotta sit with it cause there’s nothing we can do. If they’re with someone else or not it’s out of our control. So why let them take up that space in our head? I know... easier said than done but it’s the healthiest way, even if it takes a while. I miss my (not anymore) girl too.