So today I made him a card a raven and a duck just like we were. It’s been like 2 months since he said he needed space and that’s what I’ve been giving him even though it hurts. But here I am writing letters for him every day, crying to all the songs we used to vibe to, and just stuck.
Saw him today, we locked eyes and I could feel everything in his gaze. I didn’t say anything tho didn’t give him the letters didn’t want to mess with his space.
I don’t know what to do anymore. I just wanna say I miss him so much and it’s been so hard not texting him.
Last updated on:2025-02-25T15:28:14+05:30
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u got this! Honestly your ability to keep your distance is mad impressive. Keep writing those letters for yourself not with the intention of giving them to him (even if things work out) but for you. Sometimes space actually brings people closer. For now focus on your own growth.
Trust me, I'm avoidant too, and when I'm in my lowest I just wanna be alone. No one can change that no matter how much love I feel. If he’s asking for space the best thing you can do is respect it. Don’t beat yourself up, we all handle things differently. Good luck seriously
thanks for replying i'm just feeling sad and confused that's all we live close so i see him sometimes and yeah i’ve been respecting what he asked even tho he still watches my stories on socials. all i wanna do is reach out and tell him i'm here still in love and not going anywhere.
even tho i know it's not gonna get me anywhere
@candylove Your feelings are totally valid like for real. I’m sure most of us would feel the same way. Breakups are always messy and confusing. Don’t think just because he ended things that he’s not just as lost as you are trust me he probably is.
I’m sure you’ve already said everything you need to say to him. It’s tough but there’s no need to keep repeating it. He knows. Just give it some time. You’re gonna learn so much about yourself through this. Feel your feels we all have them