It kinda eats at me more than it should cause I still care about her
After we broke up she pretty much cut everyone off and started hanging with new people. She got into weed partying drinking and random hookups.
This morning I found out she hooked up with two guys while she was high at a drinking party and it’s messing with me in so many ways. First, I know both of them and I’m sure their intentions weren’t good and second it sucks seeing someone like her be used like she's just there to please random dudes.
I still think of her as one of the kindest smartest most loving people I know and it honestly messes with my head knowing she’s reached a point where she’s lowering her self-worth seeking validation from guys. She’s always struggled with insecurity but I know she deserves way more than she thinks way more than what she’s letting herself settle for.
I’m not sure why I’m feeling this way. It’s been a minute since we talked and maybe it’s a bit controlling to think like this but I just really wanna help her. Maybe it’s jealousy too the thought of other guys doing that stuff with her makes me feel sick. Idk if anyone has advice I’d really appreciate it.
Last updated on:2025-02-28T12:42:11+05:30
Comments (6)
It's valid to feel some type of way about that.
Sounds like she's going through it.
That's lowkey concerning.
that's a whole mess.
Let her go, god bless her let her look everywhere idc if she finds someone better than me. Good riddance.
That's her problem now fam not your biz.