So me and my bf have been doing long distance for almost 2 years. We live like an hour apart and were supposed to move in together in August. I’ve always tried to ignore the fact that I barely get any of his time. I know he’s a family guy looking out for his siblings (even though they’re grown have kids and his sis's bf doesn't work). All I really wanted was like one full day with him. But his sister's bf would always call him to say stuff like your sister needs to go pick this up or I need to go here so he'd leave and I’d barely get 3 hours with him. Then he’d go back home. And now he’s been sick since the 20th last month and still going to work even though I told him not to. I’ve been sitting here by my phone waiting for him to respond trying to make sure he’s okay and taking medicine. But he doesn’t always reply right away and it makes me worry and get anxious with everything going on in the news right now...
Last updated on:2025-03-03T11:56:02+05:30
Comments (9)
You're not his therapist or his mom remember that
He's got you stressed and that's not okay.
You're not a backup plan you're the main character.
Anxiety levels are through the roof just reading this.
He's gotta learn some boundaries fr.
Like is he even prioritizing you at all?
He's giving major putting everyone else first' vibes
Sis you deserve way more than 3 hours
An hour away and he can't even? Major ick.