I (24M) got broken up with by my 23F girlfriend after 6 months. She made me feel things no one else has and in my head she’s like the perfect partner I’ve always wanted.
It’s been over 6 months since the breakup. I’ve worked on my lifestyle career hobbies all of it for the better. But it’s been kinda fueled by the fact that she didn’t love me back (which is why she ended it and she was super gentle about it still says she cares about me). But honestly I still crashed hard those first couple weeks and I feel like I’m still stuck in that place. Not much has changed inside me, if anything, I feel more numb and less motivated to share what I’ve worked so hard for (like the house the cars, the money you know, that whole upper middle class vibe) with anyone. I feel bitter and like my energy isn’t even attractive to me. I know it. I’m stuck in this loop and I can’t figure out how to get it out of my head or life. It sucks.
I’ve talked to everyone I can about it but I just needed to get this off my chest. I still love and miss her even though it doesn’t make sense to me.
Love you miss wish things didn’t end the way they did. Thanks for showing me this side of heartbreak.
Last updated on:2025-03-03T12:31:26+05:30
Comments (3)
i miss my ex too, everyday she made me a better person. i get it it's hard to think straight and all you want is to relive those memories. but we gotta keep moving forward there's no other way much love bro you’ll get through this
Thanks for the perspective and kind words fam really appreciate it bro
hey its gonna be alright. time heals. give it time