Last year I (M26) caught feelings for a close friend (31F) who was sending mixed signals but said we were just friends. She ended up getting back with her ex and I felt used, so I ended things through text which led to an argument. A few months later she hit me up for closure but never apologized. I told her I loved her but she only wanted to stay friends if I had no feelings left which obviously wasn’t happening. So we went our separate ways. Now I’m still heartbroken. Therapy meds and keeping busy haven’t really helped. I reached out for closure again but still haven’t looked at her response. I’ve cut off social media and honestly have no clue how to move on.
Last updated on:2025-03-05T12:23:42+05:30
Comments (8)
Reaching out again? Big risk, big feels.
Hope it pays off.
Cutting off socials is a power move.
Respect.
Therapy and meds not hitting? That's a struggle. I feel that.
Heartbreak hits different at 26. Especially with that kinda history.
Just friends after that? Nah fam.
That's a hard pass.
Closure without an apology is… not closure. Facts.
Ghosting via text? Not the move.
That's a big yikes.
Damn… she’s icy fr.. sorry bro 😭