I got a PS5 on an installment plan for my boyfriend cause he really wanted it but couldn't afford it cause of his credit stuff. I just wanted to make him happy so I took it out in my name.
Today’s my birthday and when I came home from studying the dogs greeted me all excited but he didn’t even say happy birthday or come give me a hug. He was just sitting there playing games. We hadn’t seen each other all day.
I asked if he could come over for a sec and show me some love. He was like I'm playing right now. I was just shocked and went into another room to cry like I couldn’t even process it.
Three hours later he texts me What’s wrong? (didn’t even come over). I told him what was wrong and he just ignored how I felt.
I feel so bad. Wasn't expecting this on my birthday and I have no idea what to do.
Last updated on:2025-03-07T17:57:42+05:30
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I can totally feel you it’s okay to be upset. Maybe birthdays aren’t really his thing, but you should have a calm convo and let him know how important they are to you, and that you’ve got some expectations. Think about what those expectations are before you talk. Focus more on the love languages like quality time and gift-giving instead of blaming him for picking the PS5 over you. Try to see where he’s coming from if you want to keep this relationship. But also, set some mental boundaries for yourself so you know what kind of relationship you really want. And hey maybe treat yourself for your bday like buy something you’ve been wanting or book a meal or even a weekend trip if you can. Do something to remind yourself that you deserve your own love first. Good luck you got this
Gaming was kinda a big issue in my relationship. She wasn't vibing with me playing without her and it took a while before I could do it without any drama. But like on special days—birthdays anniversaries—we always made sure to spend them together even if it meant skipping other stuff. I was cool with it actually liked that we could just focus on each other.
Some people don’t really get how certain days mean a lot to others which is why communicating is key. He probably got defensive earlier cause he didn’t expect you to be so hurt by his actions.
I didn’t really care much about my own birthday, but I knew my ex felt differently so I made sure to message her right after midnight every year always being the first to wish her happy birthday.
Break up with him
What game was he on? Football Manager maybe? There could be a legit reason for all this...
Just kidding tho. Toss it out. But keep the PS.
video game addiction is a big problem especially for guys like me
I hope you mean ex or like soon-to-be ex boyfriend
You deserve to feel appreciated especially on your bday. It's okay to be hurt your feelings matter. Maybe it’s a good idea to talk about how his actions made you feel.
i can't even picture being cool with dating someone who treated me like that
Sounds like a lazy selfish bf. Sit him down tell him what’s on the line get it together or dip
Get all dressed up n go out with your friends. He can chill at home with the PlayStation while you’re out having a good time.
Lowkey sweet of you to buy him the PlayStation btw.
That’s when you take the PS5 back to the store lol. But for real you gotta have a straight-up talk with your bf. No texting no distractions just you two face to face. Hopefully he’ll get a grip and feel some type of guilt for picking a console over you. If not might be time to rethink the relationship. Games shouldn’t come before your partner sounds like something a teen would do not a grown man.