So I finally got the guts to say something to my gym crush. I catch him looking at me a lot but I guess I misread the vibe. He got a fresh haircut today so I thought I'd walk past him in the locker room and say I like your haircut while pointing at my head since he had headphones in. But as we kept walking he just gave me this straight face and nodded down like a stiff thank you not even looking at me just forward. Honestly I’m lowkey so embarrassed. I feel like I don't even exist to him and ugh I just wanna be loved you know? I hate how down I get over stuff like this but he was literally my type. Dating is just so tough for me and now I kinda don’t wanna go to the gym and see him again but also don’t wanna seem like I’m avoiding him or anything.
Last updated on:2025-03-11T17:04:56+05:30
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there's like a slight chance you're overthinking this
Fuck I hope
Hit the gym again and give it another shot. Honestly he probably had his headphones in and didn’t even notice. Us guys can be pretty oblivious lol. Just go up tap him tell him he looks good and ask for his number. Guys don’t get that kinda compliment much it’ll defs make his day. Don’t stress you’ll find love just keep putting yourself out there.
He’s probably just shy around you. Just go for it and ask him if he wants to grab a drink. Us guys are lowkey delicate lol. If he says no just tell him to bounce. But bet he won’t. Unless he’s got a girlfriend.