I’ve been talking to this girl for a little over a month now and things were going pretty good. We went on our first date two weeks ago and after that we were seeing each other a lot. we had sex and when I had to leave she wouldn’t let me go like literally held on to me for almost an hour. Then her texts started slowing down to one a day and I didn’t hear from her at all. I thought maybe she needed space so I checked in to see if everything was alright. Nothing. Today I asked again still nothing. I really thought she was good for me was planning on asking her to be my gf this weekend. Now I’m just confused hurt and don’t even know what happened. I keep trying to figure it out but it just hurts too much. Tomorrow I’m gonna send one last text it’s more for me than for her. After that I’m cutting her off on everything and just trying to move on. She wasn’t even my girlfriend but I feel like shit. I know in a week I’ll be better in two weeks I’ll be fine and in three I’ll be back to how I was before her. But right now? I just feel worthless.
Last updated on:2025-03-12T13:36:20+05:30
Comments (7)
Feels like a situationship fail.
Don't take it personally she's probably just flaky.
One month and then poof? Weird.
She really pulled a disappearing act.
That's rough buddy.
Just block her already. Forget that nonsense. Never double text.
Stay strong bro you're on the right track. Keep focused on the bigger picture and you’ll be good. Life’s wild and trying to figure people out is tough—honestly we barely understand ourselves half the time. Sometimes it’s about not chasing a wave that’s already gone but letting the next one roll in. Pain’s part of the game but fighting change just makes it worse. Hope you find what you're looking for 🙏