Just here to vent and see what yall think… idk where to even start
I’ve been wanting something real forever like I’ve always been loyal honest and hardworking. I stay on top of my grades don’t drink love traveling that stuff’s my vibe. But every girl I meet I end up liking them more than they like me. Feels like girls only go for jerks or emotionally toxic people. I’ve been played so many times I’m over it. I’m working hard to be a doctor doing good in school but I’ve always felt super lonely.
There’s this new girl in class we went to the beach and had a good time but then she took me off her close friends on insta which sucks. She doesn’t really reach out or make plans. And now other girls are coming back to check on me some just watch my stories on insta or whatever using me like a pillow. I’ve got so much more to say but I wanna keep it short. I just hate life right now I feel like I’m worth so much more but I keep getting stuck in the same loop over and over. I just need someone to talk to… pls sending good vibes to all of you!
Last updated on:2025-03-12T15:06:50+05:30
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It’s so frustrating when you’re doing everything right being loyal grinding hard staying focused—and still end up stuck in the same cycle of letdowns. But let’s clear something up. The whole idea that women only like jerks or toxic guys? That’s a total cop-out. It’s not that they like them it’s that those dudes show confidence set boundaries and aren’t afraid to dip when needed. That’s where you’re missing the point.
Appreciate that man I get what you're saying I really needed to hear that. I'm just dealing with some emotional stuff trying to find someone chill to vibe with and make good memories. But yeah basically just shift the way you see things right?
it sucks so much when people like us with good hearts get played. no one deserves this and i'm really sorry you're going through it too (i feel you i know what that pain is like). i know it feels super dark right now and finding someone decent seems impossible but trust me there’s a rainbow coming your way. you’ll find someone who actually appreciates you and the love you give
Gotta stay positive let it flow naturally things will work out. Just gotta wake up every day and tell myself I’m worth it everything’s gonna come my way! Thanks for the message 🙏
the worst part is i try to keep my expectations low and still get the same result like same terrible anxiety lol if someone could reach out that'd be lit
For me what helps is trying to have a growth mindset. I just learn from the emotions that come up and take what I can from them.
I look at my own behavior and feelings figure out what I actually did and think about how to grow past the stuff that doesn't vibe with who I wanna be.
I think this could help you too sometimes when you're in it, you don't really notice your feelings actions or patterns and how they come across to the other person but there's probably something there that could use a tweak.
Taking a pause and really understanding can make a big difference in how you handle things.
Hope you feel better soon and that your person shows up when the time's right
Great message Thank you so much
Get away from social media next time you see a girl..ask her out after the first date actually call or go see her and ask her out again. Fuck all this IG bullshit.
Ima try that next time thanks