So I'm in college now. I came in fresh off a 2-year relationship. He cheated, so we called it quits.
Fast forward 3 years I’m a junior now. Met this guy and we’ve been lowkey sneaky links for like 6 months. Never thought I’d catch feels for someone again but here we are. The way he holds me kisses me, talks to me just feels real you know? I’ve tried for the past 3 years to find that connection but it didn’t click until now. He broke up with his cheating ex a few months before we met so I get it, but damn it still hurts. Like we see each other twice a week cuddle for days in a rowhow is that casual?
I get he’s been out of a relationship for less than a year but why lead me on like that? Talking about hanging out doing stuff we both enjoy?
I mean walking up to him holding me playing with his hair till he falls asleep looking into his eyes while he tells me I’m beautiful… I just don’t get it.
I’m not dumb I KNOW when feelings are there. And they are. So what does he mean when he says he’s not ready for a relationship? I feel him I sense what he feels too but he’s not ready? I'm so confused.
Last updated on:2025-03-13T17:46:48+05:30
Comments (8)
He's not being honest with you. And that's a major trust issue.
He wants the benefits without the responsibility. Hard pass.
He's using you as a placeholder.
You deserve better.
That's a textbook situationship.
And it ain't it.
Not ready is code for not ready for you. Harsh but true.
He's giving you the runaround.
Don't fall for it.
Sneaky links turning into feelings? Story of my life.
Been there.
Oof that's a whole mess. Mixed signals are the worst.