we've been together 6 months fell crazy in love were gonna get married next year I was planning to propose. 2 years ago she lost her partner in a horrible car accident (he was the passenger) and in January the court case started against the driver. Since then it's brought up a lot for her.
I told her from the start her past isn’t an issue for me. Even tho she never said it I kinda accepted she might never love me as much as she loved him. Lately tho the court stuff has been messing with her heavy and she’s been pushing me away. She told me she can’t be the gf I need right now that she has to deal with all this but she can’t do it while being with me. She said she can’t promise she’ll come back but if it’s meant to be we’ll find our way back to each other. So we broke up
I’m so heartbroken. My head’s like move on she’s not coming back and even if she does it could take forever. But my heart’s like have faith y’all were meant to be everything pointed to it. Then there’s this other part of me asking how long can I really hold on? Months? Years? Will she ever love me the same?
I feel like shit I can’t sleep my chest hurts I don’t even have tears left. Every part of me wants to message her but I know it won’t help.
Last updated on:2025-03-19T11:27:08+05:30
Comments (6)
"Waiting" is something that really takes a lot out of us.It really keeps the same old things revolving around in our mind.Not only that in a lot of cases it pushes the person you are Waiting for further away. and creates so many "What if she comes back" situations.Dont hold yourself back from moving on to a more joyful you in Life. You deserve it
this is tough and i really feel for you man.. it's obvious you love her a lot but she's going through something way bigger than your relationship rn.. grief trauma and a whole legal battle over someone she lost in a tragic way.. no matter how much you wanna help that's not something you can fix for her
she didn’t love you bro she was just lonely and looking for some comfort kinda like a rebound
nah bro if she really loved you she wouldn’t risk losing you to someone else if she comes back y’all will figure it out then but for now just you got hella time she doesn’t so that regret gon hit
the whole court thing ain’t a reason to break up w you tbh i wouldn’t keep things going w her
move on bro this ain’t love fr learn to love yourself n know ur worth she clearly didn’t see it she couldn’t be the woman u needed or stay loyal to u but to some dude from the past n u said that’s fine? nah that ain’t it there’s someone out there who’ll love u fr she just ain’t the one ik it hurts but heartbreak comes n goes u’ll find better i believe in u