so i was with my girl for like 2 years first relat

so i was with my girl for like 2 years first relationship fr and i really gave it my all loved her sm she had a lot of trauma and was super depressed but i didn’t let that drag me down she had like 3 exes before me but this was my first time for real i thought we were solid and in love but yeah nah fast forward i had to leave her i was young and had to think smart she was dealing with a lot but it got to a point where i just couldn’t handle it anymore like throwing stuff screaming every time we argued she never left the house cuz of her depression and trauma
so 8 months after the breakup i find out she was cheating on me the whole time with her ex while i was at work or chilling with my boys and idk it might sound dumb to some ppl but i swear i never saw it coming like we were open about everything or at least i thought so but yeah lesson learned
the way it all went down tho is what really gets me i was never even friends with dude he would come by my work sometimes to grab stuff dap me up act all cool like we were chill meanwhile he was smashing my girl behind my back and then telling ppl he don’t even care cuz we weren’t that close like bro i literally threw up when i found out cuz the thought of being in that same bed having sex with her knowing he was too makes me sick i get goosebumps thinking about it still messes me up
but yeah i’m already dating someone new and she’s really into me and i’m into her so i’m tryna focus on that just made this post to see what y’all think and if u got any advice on how to process this tbh my mindset is just fuck her fuck dude and move on but still kinda sad that someone i really loved turned out like that

Last updated on:2025-03-24T17:47:14+05:30