this dude popped into my life n made me feel special af. at the time he was married but his marriage was a dumpster fire. they fought nonstop. bc of that i never paid him any mind at first n ignored his flirty bs
over time we got close. then he started chasing me fr. he treated me like a queen saw me every day spoiled me talked about our future marriage kids all that. ngl i fell hard. thought he really meant it
then he met a girl who kinda looks like me but is more conventionally pretty. better face card better body. he started distancing himself told me he didn’t wanna be emotionally involved w me. this was after i told him i loved him n wanted to be w him
he hit me w the i don’t feel the same way n i feel guilty bc i’m married but then started showing off this new girl to me saying the same stuff he used to tell me. bro was rubbing it in my face fr. so i cut him off bc it hurt too much
he immediately started dating her. i did 6 months of no contact to heal. 7 months later we started talking again as just friends. i made that v clear. didn’t think he even cared abt me anymore after the way he dumped me
fast forward 2 yrs. he divorced his wife for this girl but wouldn’t do it for me. they live together she’s having his baby. lowkey i hoped they wouldn’t last—not bc i wanted him back but bc it sucks knowing i got replaced so easily
his gf knows we were close so she banned him from talking to me. but he met up w me in secret a few months ago n tried to hook up. kissed me. i pulled away n asked "what abt ur gf?" he said "i love her" …yet was tryna cheat. like???
he told me they fight a lot n he gets jealous bc guys hit on her. but he’s still gonna marry her bc he "doesn’t wanna be a baby daddy he wants to be a father." also said he can’t text me bc she’d flip out. but he doesn’t wanna "jeopardize his relationship" lmao
i spent so long healing n dude still reactivated all my feelings just to ghost me again. he changed his pfp to him n her n it broke me. he never posted me like that. he does everything for her but i was just a side quest. why was i not enough?
logically ik he’s trash but emotionally it still hurts. i feel so stupid for caring this much. i feel like i got played n tossed aside. i just wanna stop hurting. how do i move tf on?
Last updated on:2025-03-25T15:02:34+05:30
Comments (7)
not tryna be mean but a side chick ain’t replacing the wife if u don’t wanna be just an option don’t go for married men if u don’t wanna get tossed aside by someone who already got their main priority don’t go for married men
This particular post really made me feel bad out of Empathy for you. I can assure this person is just trying to use you and everyone else involved with him. Please please totally refrain from getting close to him and Maintain strict "No contact". He will do no good
Girl he don’t want you fr you gotta let him go like he’s out here tryna cheat on his baby mama w you he don’t respect you so why should you you gotta move on and maybe hit up therapy this ain’t it for you
He totally love-bombed you that's why it's so messy. Classic narcissist move. You lowkey dodged a bullet fr. Just think about all the trashy stuff he did. You deserve way better.
I think he pulls this on everyone fr even his wife got love bombed. Don't fall for this clown. I get that it’s tough accepting he wasn’t real but this is just who he is. Dude’s a seasonal lover for everybody.
No contact fr. Block or delete on socials and your phone. Just focus on you. Get to a place where he doesn’t even cross your mind. It’s a tough ride and feels like it drags forever but trust me it won’t. I’ve been there, barely think about her now. If I can do it you got this too. Good luck 🤍
you get what you give so enjoy lol