yo so i just got out of this 2-year relationship that honestly shouldn’t have even started so here’s the story she was married but getting a divorce we met at a friend’s party i asked for her number she seemed into me at first but ngl i felt kinda used li

yo so i just got out of this 2-year relationship that honestly shouldn’t have even started so here’s the story
she was married but getting a divorce we met at a friend’s party i asked for her number she seemed into me at first but ngl i felt kinda used like she was tryna get back at her husband
fast forward she got pregnant with my son we took a break for a few months got back together moved in together but we fought a lot i always felt like she was talking to other ppl so i’d ask to see her phone she’d fight me on it so i just stopped asking but the thought never went away it put a huge strain on us
like 2-2.5 years in she started talking to some dude she said was from an old relationship i was like aight whatever but something felt off then i found pics of her that she sent to him i told her to cut him off and she did
about a year later we went out w her friends to a bar i wanted to go home bc it was late and we had kids at home but she stayed out went to a country bar and got home all over me yk what i mean anyway she knocked out and her phone went off i checked and some dude from the bar was texting her saying he had a great time blah blah blah i woke her up and she admitted they kissed i asked her friends about it they said they didn’t see anything but i didn’t believe them still didn’t break up tho
she stopped talking to him and another year goes by we took a month break got back together for the kids even took them to disneyland second night there she gets a text from some guy she was talking to while we were broken up she explained but it still hurt felt way too fast but i let it go
another year and a half later i propose to her at disneyland in front of our kids and family few months later she dumps me calls me a narcissist and every name in the book then jumps into a new relationship right after my life went to shit i moved to another state lost friends even family fell into a deep depression took me FOREVER to heal and i wouldn’t even say i’m fully healed yet
started making new friends talking to ppl met this girl at work wasn’t really looking for anything but she caught my interest not bc she was hot or whatever but we had the exact same taste in music shows movies everything same birth month same age felt crazy
at first she was hard to hang out with bc she had issues 1. crazy ex who’s on drugs and cheated on her 2. she has an std from her ex and was scared to tell me 3. she takes meds for depression
i def rushed things with her i wanted something serious she did too but later we shared our life stories started hanging out ended up hooking up spent the night at her place did it again she told me she got out of an 8-year relationship a year ago but her ex still thought they were together
one night he legit broke in while i was there threw a fit and left she didn’t wanna call the cops two days later he shows up again she says they were talking and he’s calm now and that she’d call me later i was like aight cool she never called ghosted me all night i was stressed af my car was broken or i would’ve gone over next morning i texted her friend to check on her they said she was fine she finally texts me 2-3 hours later saying “me and my ex talked last night and i’m ending this with you” wtf just happened
later i found out she said her ex wouldn’t let her see one of her kids if she kept seeing me but her friends said that wasn’t true they said she just wouldn’t listen to them we kept talking as “friends” but i wasn’t cool with that told her she got mad and stopped talking to me then told her guy friend i wouldn’t leave her alone which was annoying later she said we could talk if we were just friends but i didn’t want that i knew this was all red flags but i think i have attachment issues
i ended up saying idk but i’ll still talk to u she told her friend we were cool couple days later i tried to see her called her while i was already at her driveway she said don’t come i was like aight and left no problem we kept talking tho next day i realized i don’t wanna be just friends so i brought it up again on snap and she got mad saying we already talked about this so now we’re not talking again then her friend texted me like “leave her alone” even tho i already planned to
idk man the whole situation is a mess i feel like i’ll never find someone i feel useless and just broken like we went from sharing deep shit to not even talking am i an idiot :(

Last updated on:2025-03-26T16:21:43+05:30