met my ex 2 yrs ago we were friends first then got together last May.. not even my longest relationship tbh we were only really together 9 months and met up in person once bc LDR (a few hrs away) but damn this breakup hit me hard I feel so unmotivated n just sad.. he was a bit younger broke up w me in Jan then came back a couple weeks later just to drag things out w false hope then dipped again so yeah it’s been rough.. even tho it was short I really thought he was different had so many hopes dreams plans n now it's all just gone.. miss him as a friend too n that's been one of the hardest parts.. like who even was he fr
on top of that life rn is just meh.. still at home bc cost of living sucks got PCOS + Crohn’s not vibing w my job just got rejected for an internal role too..
feel so drained n nothing’s sparking joy rn usually heartbreak or setbacks kinda push me to do better but this time I just feel stuck like what if this is it what if I'm alone forever n stuck w my parents til one of us dies ? hate thinking like this but it’s so hard to shake I miss my ex my friend pool is small my bestie has her own life n responsibilities so I can't expect her to drop everything for me I know I gotta take small steps n focus on me but this lack of motivation is killing me.. thinking abt going to the office a day or two a week just to force myself out the house idk does anyone have tips bc I need em ?
Last updated on:2025-03-27T13:57:22+05:30
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Bruh we only linked once
C’mon man it wasn’t even a long relationship I’m just looking for real advice on life in general. Yeah we only got to spend real time together once cuz of the distance and our separate lives. I’m not here for judgment just tryna figure out how to get out of this rut.
@Rosipure sry
honestly just take care of urself if ur feeling super low just focus on the next tiny step u gotta take like “ok imma make myself some food
and like the other person said try getting out n meeting ppl not even in a romantic way just vibe w new faces
i don’t have many friends either n it’s tough tryna make more but u should still give it a shot
@silverpower Thanks I appreciate the apology :) Just tryna take it one day at a time. I’ve been feeling super unmotivated lately like straight-up exhausted. So much heavy stuff’s gone down these past couple years and losing all the plans/life I was building with my ex so fast just hit me like a truck.
I struggle with making connections IRL too I can be pretty shy. And at this age, a lot of my friends are married or in long-term relationships so the idea of putting myself out there again feels kinda overwhelming. Even just getting myself out the door some days is a whole battle.
@Rosipure Sending you tons of strength and good vibes... oh and some solid weather too lowkey that might help
bro fr log off n go touch some grass meet ppl irl n have some real convos