me n my gf broke up n man it sucks

me n my gf broke up n man it sucks.. she’s super sweet n kind n I really loved being w her. I’d ask to come over just to chill watch her fave shows talk abt random stuff n play games together. I told her how much I enjoyed it. I even relearned cursive just to write her a letter on valentines bc she writes in cursive. getting to know her was so fun n in the process I learned a lot abt myself too. it never felt dull w her fr
but thenmy friend was like yo ur doing all the work in a two person job n that hit me. made me realize I really was. we broke up bc I kept bringing up how I needed more attention n effort from her but every time I did we just drifted more. the first time I asked if we could spend more time 1 on 1 instead of always w her bff too. like I love quality time w just us n she knows this. she said she got it but nothing changed. she never really invited me to hang out or play games unless I asked. our convos got dry af n my anxiety was through the roof.
second time I brought it up I reminded her what I liked to do for fun. again she said she understood but still no invites unless it was a group thing. third time I asked I finally got a real answer—she was busy w school n her fam makes random plans. like damn. it took 3 convos n a month n a half to just tell me that?? I got frustrated n for 4 days I just mirrored her energy. when she finally called me out on it I lashed out.. that was on me n I apologized. after that it just felt weird. seeing her in person felt like walking on eggshells. I felt like everything I did was being watched. at that point I just wanted to reconnect w her not even ask for more attention. but yeah.. it led to the breakup
was I inconsiderate? selfish for wanting a lil more of her attention? did I push too hard? should I have just stayed quiet? did I ruin this whole thing? idk I’m just really confused n hurt rn

Last updated on:2025-03-28T09:40:02+05:30