it's been 9 months since the breakup we don’t talk anymore we’ve blocked each other everywhere but sometimes I unblock her and stalk her profile and idk man whenever she changes her dp or gains followers or switches up her bio it just hits different like something in my chest literally shatters I feel that same pain from day one all over again
some days I’m chill like yeah she’s gone she’s not coming back I gotta move on but then outta nowhere I get hit with this crazy urge to talk to her and ngl I’ve given in a few times I texted her even asked if we could get back together but she never gives a straight answer she just talks for a bit then dips and it leaves me feeling even worse
right now that same pain is creeping back and idk what to do so I’m posting here I’ve tried everything to move on to ignore the pain to let it pass but here I am still stuck in the same loop
today my friends were joking around saying my ex likes all my stories and some other stuff I just laughed it off but deep down it stung bad I don’t wanna live like this anymore I wanna do something with my life I wanna achieve something but this is just dragging me down and wasting my time someone pls tell me how to fix this
Last updated on:2025-03-29T11:53:16+05:30
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Hey brother thanks for the Sharing. Hats off to your courage.Hope this helps a lot of us.
I feel sometimes we are over the person that we dated , but we are not over the security,warmth, affection, beautiful memories that person gave us or we spent with them.
and off course the only way to get over that is to bring yourself to a place Where so much joy, Love , security and affection surrounds you in your reality. That you loose urge to repeat the Past.
Everyday take steps for Health,Finance, creativity,Learning, Finance
set up new goals
make a gratitude Journal
meet new people and travel
connect with Nature
I promise you will be over the past in no time
What you’re feeling is raw and real but the fact that you’re asking for advice shows your strength. Keep putting yourself first you deserve a life filled with joy and achievement.
You deserve to live your life without the weight of this heartache holding you back. Little by little shift your focus to what makes you feel alive and fulfilled
The urge to reach out is natural but remember the times you felt worse after doing so. Protect your heart and channel that energy into growing instead of looking back
The waves of pain show how deeply you cared but don’t let them drown you. Build a future where your heart glows again not because of anyone else but because of you
You’ve come so far already even acknowledging these emotions is progress. Keep striving to shift your focus toward your goals and dreams they will lead to healing.
You’ve given so much of your heart and it’s understandable to feel this way.
It takes courage to admit you’re struggling and that’s a powerful first step. You’re not alone, and with time and patience you’ll reclaim your happiness and focus