It’s been like 2 months since I last confessed to her ngl I’ve never felt this many emotions for anyone before but she didn’t feel the same The first time I confessed was kinda subtle like 5 months ago she said she needed time and wasn’t sure how she felt so I had hope back then Anyway she shut down the idea of us but kept trying to stay close without realizing how deep my feelings ran When I confronted her she denied it and said she only wants me as a friend Maybe she’s right but I can’t see it as anything but love
So like two weeks ago I decided to cut her off (not on social media but irl) Left all the mutual friend groups and straight up told her not to check up on me or treat me as a friend cuz that’s just gonna make moving on impossible Basically I ended whatever was left between us
Now the hard part is I still gotta see her and those mutuals cuz we’re in the same degree course and I’m really struggling to handle this whole situation What do I do bro
Last updated on:2025-04-18T12:14:30+05:30
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you gotta move states bro , or schools or the city. I know it sounds dramatic but in Jan I left my ex who I was so in love with bcuz I made a choice to love me more I chose me , even tho that was super fucken hard and I didn't believe in me. I didn't think that I could make it this far. here I am 3 months later , I have not seen him , talked to him or looked for him. but WHT helped me was leaving the city we're from, the city I grew up in. there was no way I could be in the same city as him and not be with him. cuz all it takes is one look into his eyes and im done. it sounds easier said than done trust me it hurts, i miss him every fuxken day and night , I love him I prolly always will but I choose me .
Hey Hope you find strength in such a situation. It's so difficult to get out of a situation where you have to be close to the person You like and you cant have them the way you want.But then is that what Love is all about, Having the person the way you want them to be or is it just about letting them free and off course still maintaining your space. May be there is way to have them around and not be affected by it by just letting go of your desire to have them a certain way. and may be that will make them want you as well
Mutual friends can make healing tricky, but you can redirect your focus to building your own connections and spaces that bring positivity.
It’s hard to let go when love runs deep, but you’ve already taken a huge step by cutting off contact. Stay firm in your decision it will get better.
The road to moving on is never easy especially when you’re in the same environment. Lean on your passions and future goals to keep yourself focused
Love is painful when it’s unreciprocated but cutting ties was a brave move to prioritize your wellmbeing. Keep choosing yourself.
Seeing her and mutual friends must be incredibly tough but remind yourself why you made this decision you deserve clarity and peace.
You did what you needed to protect your heart and that takes strength. It’s not easy but setting boundaries is a powerful step toward healing.