so i’m 21 and met this girl at a small restaurant she was my group's waitress i thought she was cute but i just kept to myself like usual her shift ended right when we were finishing up and before she left she slid a note in front of me like i think you’re

so i’m 21 and met this girl at a small restaurant she was my group's waitress i thought she was cute but i just kept to myself like usual her shift ended right when we were finishing up and before she left she slid a note in front of me like i think you’re super cute text me if you’re single and left her number next day we went on a tea date we vibed and honestly at first it felt like she was into me even more than i was into her
on that first date she told me she had a problem with molly and ket but she’d been sober for 3 months i really respected her honesty bc that’s not easy to say right away we went on a second date walked a trail smoked till the sun set got ice cream chilled at her place watched south park and cuddled for hours it was actually so nice after that we kept texting every day
she landed a solid undergrad job and i pulled up to her place to celebrate same vibe as before just enjoying each other’s company never had sex which i didn’t really care about i just liked being around her but yeah that was the last time i saw her
one night she invited me over but i was exhausted from work we still kept texting every day and it felt really good then outta nowhere she just switched up got cold over text i noticed it instantly we went three days without talking and i couldn’t take it so i told her how i felt even though it’d only been like three weeks she basically said yeah it’s super early but she thinks i’m cool and would be down to keep seeing me but couldn’t fully commit right now
few days later she texts saying she doesn’t feel the same way after our dates and doesn’t wanna waste my time gave me the whole you’re cool bla bla bla speech i said a lot but in the end i realized if it’s not mutual i gotta let it go still tho that hurt bad like i was just getting to know her and she was the first person in a long time who made me feel any kinda comfort so going from that to completely gone?? yeah that stung
it’s been 2 months since i met her i’m not looking for advice on getting her back or anything i know she’s done but i could really use some advice on how to actually feel better and move on i wanna meet someone i can build something with but idk if it’s too soon since she’s still on my mind

Last updated on:2025-03-31T13:36:59+05:30