thought i was getting better but nah back to square one. he’s been lying to me for years. swore he never wanted marriage. told me TODAY he’s single but his ex says they’re getting married in may. idk what to believe. she knows he cheated and they’ve been broken up for 2 years. he’s had me on a string this whole time. we work together. he lies nonstop. blocked me when he found out i hit up his ex (like he always does). i can’t do this anymore. how do i stop caring. i can’t eat i can’t sleep i can’t see him i can’t get answers. idk how to stop hurting
Last updated on:2025-04-01T18:12:59+05:30
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hey Friend Hope you get out of this tornado of emotions soon. I can assure you , you do not need to stop caring , all you need to do is shift this care somewhere else , to Life people around you, to nature , to yourself that the best way to get out of this without even trying
hope this helps
don't try to become bitter, just stop being sweet towards him that all
you just gotta wait that’s the only way time makes the pain smaller till it barely matters or if ur lucky it’s gone completely
healing looks different for everyone some take a month some take years like me but no contact is key or u’ll end up right back where u started
it’s been 4 years of this on n off we work together so i can’t fully go no contact still gotta see him we’re both under contract i thought i moved on more but i feel shattered
timing’s different for everyone some heal in a month some take years like me but no contact is key or u just end up back at square one
@nooneluvme sorry i forgot abt the working together part.. our situations are diff so idk what to say but i’m sorry 🫂
he’s a compulsive liar u don’t need closure u need a distraction
ik he is but i just can’t let go for some reason not knowing the truth is driving me insane and the person who told me isn’t even that trustworthy so i feel crazy i can’t sleep or eat
@nooneluvme you’re gonna cry a lot and it’s gonna hurt but with time you’ll heal just stay away from toxic ppl heartbreak sucks but you’ll be okay one day will be good again maybe try writing down ur feelings or talking to someone u trust and do some deep breathing i get the not eating n sleeping i went thru it too just don’t be too hard on urself ur worth so much
@Maskedgirl i just feel so powerless since he blocked me like i can’t get the truth from anyone the girl who told me won’t even answer so now i’m just stuck confused and torn apart i feel awful like i’ve been trying to move on for years and i’m still in the same place but thank u for ur kind words my friends n fam are so over hearing abt him