lately feels like every friend i ever made is lowkey hurting me

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lately feels like every friend i ever made is lowkey hurting me. had a horrible breakup last year messed up my work life too still tryna deal with it in my own way. had this close friend (M25) for 4 years n now he just dipped said sum like "i might get married this year so i don't wanna make it a habit" like bro if that was the case why not keep that same energy from the start no? now when i actually need a friend he's just gone. feel so used like what about the habits i formed over these years talking n vibing with him?
n then i find out two of my longest girl friends both got played by the same dude last year dated him broke up n everything but i only heard about it now like 2 days ago. they told everyone else but kept me outta the loop when i used to tell them everything. idk why every friendship/relationship is just falling apart like this it's rlly messing with my self esteem n honestly i just wanna disappear from all of them rn

Last updated on:2025-03-31T17:34:39+05:30

Comments (7)

KeepitSaral
KeepitSaral 11 mths ago

Hey,
May be disappearing from all of them won't be a bad option. Sometimes we need to shut all the old doors and breathe in the new air. Give yourself some time to be and feel and process the pain.

Devlover
Devlover 11 mths ago

Taking space sounds like a smart move, fr.
Do what's best for you.

Portuxkoll
Portuxkoll 11 mths ago

Sounds like it's time for a friend cleanse.
Unfollow button looking tempting.

Treatgood
Treatgood 11 mths ago

Secret keeping in the girl group? That's a whole mess.

Ginniminda
Ginniminda 11 mths ago

The audacity of the friend tho. Like bye Felicia?

Rulergirl01
Rulergirl01 11 mths ago

That marriage habit excuse is sus AF.
Red flag emoji.

Keybath215
Keybath215 11 mths ago

Heavy on the used feeling. That ain't it chief.