Me and my girl got back together she don’t really have friends so I introduced her to my childhood crew. My best friend BIv got way too close to her though which isn’t new cause he always vibes a little too much with his boys girls. One night we got drunk and he admitted he finds her attractive plus they’ve been talking about our relationship issues like… why. Then he adds her to a group chat with his friends who secretly don’t like me and I only found out cause I saw his message to her. I asked him straight up why he’s discussing our relationship or keeping stuff from me and it led to a fallout I blocked him cause I lost all respect knowing he actually likes her. His whole crew blocked me too cause they follow whatever he does and she still hangs out with him even though I told him to cut it off twice. She says he’s the only one who listens to her but it’s breaking us I told her this isn’t right and she still won’t drop him. Now it feels like everyone turned against me and I don’t know if I should leave or rebuild things with her and then make her cut him off. Is this normal or is it controlling cause I just feel straight-up betrayed.
Last updated on:2025-04-01T18:03:46+05:30
Comments (9)
If the relationship lacks communication the fix isn’t another guy it’s real effort from both of you.
Real love comes with trust and communication not sneaky conversations and emotional third parties. Don’t settle for less.
You deserve clarity not confusion. If she won’t see why this situation is toxic you might need to step away.
You’re trying to save a relationship she’s actively letting break. If she won’t cut ties with the drama maybe you should.
It’s wild that she’s still hanging with people who blocked you… you need someone who stands beside you not against you.
The loyalty test has been failed on both sides this isn’t about jealousy it’s about respect. Time to reassess everything.
BIv crossed a line and the fact that she still entertains him says a lot. You deserve someone who listens AND respects you
If she values your relationship she should respect how this makes you feel. If she won’t maybe it’s time to walk away.
This situation is messed up your best friend disrespected boundaries and she’s letting it happen. Protect your peace.