i swear i’m always the backup option at best. ever since i started dating it’s just been one heartbreak after another. my first love dropped me cuz i failed one of her little tests. the second took my v card then ran back to her ex. the third didn’t even try in our relationship. the fourth my longest cheated on me and left me for a high schooler… she was 26. after that i was in my head heavy but then i met someone who i thought was it like last person i’d ever have to date. it was too perfect too good to be true… and yeah she just left no reason just cuz she felt like it. that one really broke me for good. months later i tried again even tho my gut said nah… and surprise surpries she replaced me with some guy she barely even knew and never even wanted like that before.
i don’t get why this keeps happening. i’ve tried looking for some pattern in the girls i go for but there’s nothing. different ages different jobs different personalities nothing adds up. why am i never enough?? like i know my worth. i’m romantic funny fit got a solid job and i put effort into improving myself. i know my flaws too and i work on them but it’s still never enough. i’m just tired of falling for people only to have to bury those feelings in the end. idk how much more of this i can take.
Last updated on:2025-04-03T17:00:02+05:30
Comments (8)
You’re tired because you’ve given so much of yourself to the wrong people. One day, someone will love you the way you’ve always loved others.
My friend it's the Rejection.Sometimes our vibe or our inner space is such that brings rejection to us. May be for you being in relationship is not so important as much self actualization. Diving deeper into who you are and what do you really want to do with the time you are alive on this plane and may be the relationship will happen at ease without any effort but stop waiting for it
I know the weight of heartbreak feels unbearable but this isn’t the end this is just another step toward finding someone who won’t make you question your worth.
You are worth more than temporary affection. Someone out there is going to choose you fully without hesitation.
Sometimes love doesn’t fail people do. Keep your standards high and don’t settle for anyone who makes you feel like second best.
It’s exhausting when every relationship feels like a lesson in heartbreak. Take a step back and focus on yourself you’ll attract the right person when the time is right.
You’re not the backup option you’ve just been giving your love to people who don’t know how to appreciate it. You deserve better.
sorry your dating life’s been rough hope you take time to heal n focus on yourself the right girl will show up when you’re ready