past few months been rough ngl a lot went down with relationships n stuff nothing crazy but my mind kinda decided i can only be happy if i’m with someone or even just talking to someone n that’s so not healthy fr i can feel it messing w my mental health i think about it way too much always looking for someone always stuck on the what-ifs n it’s driving me insane
it’s not like my life is bad either i got a loving fam solid friends doing good in school got into the college i wanted i stay productive workout daily eat decent get sun all that but my brain still won’t let me be happy unless i’m w someone
starting to think it’s something deeper like i’m trying to fill some void w relationships but at this point i’m losing hope most days i just don’t feel okay mentally i’m so drained and i don’t see an end to it
Last updated on:2025-04-04T17:54:06+05:30
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the best way to let go of any tendency of your mind to accept it and let it be the controller and In the moment there is fully acceptance your heart will automatically loose the tendency.
you're lowkey using people to cope tbh maybe talk to a therapist instead
yeah fr you're not the only one feeling that way
sometimes instead of trying to talk to someone in a romantic way you can just vibe with your friends or fam yk
for me personally i’ve been feeling alone for like 5 years now
and after a while you kinda just accept it and it stops hitting as hard
not the healthiest route tbh so wouldn’t really recommend it lol
but yeah 😅
thank god i work at a grocery store lol i actually love it tbh
i get to meet all kinds of people i normally wouldn't talk to
cuz outside of work i don’t really have the same confidence to just start convos with randoms
yeah it’s totally valid to feel that way tbh… we’re humans we kinda need each other to get through stuff
a few things you could maybe try out—move in with a few roommates, check out stuff on meetup dot com sign up for Big Brother Big Sister start a game night hang with family more maybe cook for them or plan a little visit
I feel u fr. same boat rn. doin all the right stuff but still feelin mad lonely. all we can really do is try to stay positive and keep pushin day by day