i had an ex like 3 years ago we were together for 1.5 years but in the end we just weren’t feeling it anymore so we broke up i kinda let my ego take over and never called her again i did go by her place like 3 months after to grab my stuff brought her some flowers and thanked her for everything but tbh i lowkey pushed her away when things got rough and i still regret it last week i called her just to catch up but i didn’t tell her how i really feel cuz after 2.5 years of no contact it felt kinda weird to just drop that on her outta nowhere plus she lives in spain now but she’s coming back to my country soon so idk should i wait like 4-5 months till she’s back and then tell her or just call her now?
Last updated on:2025-04-04T17:51:33+05:30
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Instead of Pouring your heart out straightway keep the conversation going but don't be too intentional with it. Still be alive in your life while feeling that tingly feeling. It's that feeling of wanting it to happen faster that really doesn't let us mature in our life and take decisions in haste.
You already reached out which is a huge step. Maybe test the waters keep the convo going and see if the right moment comes naturally.
If you want a real chance at reconnecting waiting until she’s back might help. But if it’s just about expressing how you feel a call now wouldn’t hurt.
The fact that you regret pushing her away means you’ve grown. Whether or not she still feels the same, owning up to your feelings can bring closure.
It’s been years but it sounds like you still care about making things right. Trust your gut on when the time feels right.
If you don’t say something now will it keep eating at you? If so maybe it’s better to call sooner rather than later.
Honestly waiting till she’s back might feel more natural. In-person convos hit different and you’ll be able to read her reaction better.
If it still weighs on you after all this time maybe it’s worth saying. Whether you wait or call now depends on how much closure you need.
if you think it might bring you some peace or closure then yeah go for it
just keep in mind their reaction might not be what you hope for
and it could reopen old wounds or slow down the healing you’ve done
so like weigh it out and do what feels right for you
just try not to end up in a spot where you regret it later
good luck tho fr hope you find what you’re looking for 🤍