been with him for 5 years and we met again after 2 years of long distance he left while i was literally begging him to stay i never cheated never betrayed so like what did i even do wrong he just said he wanted to leave called me annoying and said i w

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been with him for 5 years and we met again after 2 years of long distance
he left while i was literally begging him to stay
i never cheated never betrayed
so like what did i even do wrong
he just said he wanted to leave
called me annoying and said i was suffocating
said he tried but never even let me speak
kept telling me i was being too emotional and not practical
he literally said “why would i stay if this broken thing won’t even work out”
he wanted to be my hero or whatever
then he dipped after verbally abusing me and blocked me
i don’t even hate him but he’s not the guy i fell for
and now i’m just here like… am i really that hard to love?

Last updated on:2025-06-03T22:38:16+05:30

Comments (13)

ByteChill
ByteChill 9 mths ago

ik it hurts, I've been in the same place

EpicJourney
EpicJourney 9 mths ago

it's been a month now, I hope you're feeling better about yourselves and how he never deserved you

SweetLight
SweetLight 10 mths ago

you must try and pick up the pieces go out with friends change your hair get some new summer wardrobes pick up a good book find a new show to watch your stronger than you think get up get out and do something.

SweetGlow8
SweetGlow8 10 mths ago

it's better that he left you before marriage mine after having one year kid destroyed the family and finding healing from his college girlfriend

ChillDays
ChillDays 11 mths ago

hi sweetie

ChillZone5
ChillZone5 11 mths ago

Hii

PeriLuv
PeriLuv 11 mths ago

I know this pain feels unbearable, but one day you’ll realize you were never the problem. You deserve love that stays.

SkyBird
SkyBird 11 mths ago

You tried, you gave your heart and you loved deeply. That makes you strong not difficult.

silverpower
silverpower 11 mths ago

Love should make you feel safe, not suffocated. His inability to handle emotions says more about him than it does about you.

Undersadness
Undersadness 11 mths ago

It hurts when someone changes into someone you don’t even recognize. You’re grieving not just the relationship but who you thought he was.

JLR245
JLR245 11 mths ago

You are not hard to love. You just gave your love to someone who couldn’t appreciate it the way you deserved.

KeepitSaral
KeepitSaral 11 mths ago

You will always be hard to love for someone who doesn't know how to Love.Dont consider being emotional as a vanity. Now that he is gone , may be nothing can be done but may be something can be done for how you want to move ahead in your life

valuable224
valuable224 11 mths ago

Healing takes time focus on yourself now.