I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and I love him more than I ever thought possible. I’m super open with my emotions always showing love but he’s not the same so sometimes it’s hard to read him. Lately he’s done a few things that kinda hurt—not intentionally but still. Like I took time off just to be with him and he spent most of the day at his sports club. Another time we had a free afternoon but he chose to stay home instead. He replies slower than usual feels more distant and honestly I’m scared I’m losing him.
My confidence is already kinda wrecked so overthinking is taking over. He keeps saying everything’s fine but I see things that don’t match his words. My mind keeps telling me he’s gonna leave maybe even for someone else and I don’t know what I’d do if that happens. He’s my happiness my person and I don’t wanna seem clingy by voicing my fears even though I am insecure.
Life’s been a mess and I have no one to talk to about this so I feel super alone in it. I just hope I’m overthinking and that I’m wrong.
Last updated on:2025-04-08T17:20:36+05:30
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just be real about what you need and how you feel
don’t keep guessing or assuming stuff
i feel like if i tried to talk about my needs and feelings it’d just make me seem insecure and needy which tbh i kinda am when it comes to him
the idea of losing him is just way too much for me
Tbh just put yourself first. He’s not making you a priority so don’t make him one either. Match his energy if that pushes him away he was never meant to stay but at least you’ll be rebuilding yourself. If he wakes up and starts showing up for you then cool you’ll know where you stand. Hope this helps! 💙
Appreciate the advice you’re probably right. He knows I’m struggling but he’s not really showing up when I need him. I’ve put him through a lot too and maybe he’s just drained. As much as it’ll hurt I’d rather face the truth now than stay stuck at least then I can start healing. Hope I get some clarity soon. Let me know if you need more help with this 💙
so what’d he do then? you didn’t say
too in my feels to type this out right rn sorry