Me and my girl broke up on March 3rd after two years together. What we had was different felt like we were meant to be. Out of everyone I’ve been with she was my only real love and I was hers. We had our whole future mapped out.
We didn’t split because we stopped loving each other it’s just that right now neither of us is in the right headspace for a relationship. She made it clear she didn’t want to break up but felt like she had to. I don’t have much going on in my life and I don’t love myself the way I should. I know you can’t fully love someone else until you love yourself first.
One of the last things she said was that she’ll always love me I’ll always have a place in her heart and I’ll always be her soulmate. She even said she’s open to the idea of us getting back together someday but no promises and honestly I get that.
Right now being apart feels necessary but I don’t think it’s forever. I’m gonna rebuild my life heal and grow for me first. But if there’s ever a chance for us again I know I need to become the best version of myself first.
Last updated on:2025-04-10T16:01:55+05:30
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I hope you can let go of the waiting, which is the only thing that may make you a little helpless.I hope you grow and prosper in your life
pretty sure some ppl won’t agree with me but i don’t think soulmates are a real thing..don’t box yourself in like that or you’ll just keep chasing something outside of you. if something’s actually right there’ll be a way for it to work out. sometimes things feel right at first but people change as they grow. idk what your situation is exactly but something must’ve been off at some point. with time you’ll both get more clarity on what went wrong and from there you’ll know if it was meant to be something more or if it’s time to let go. feelings are never easy fr
when i say soulmate i don’t mean it like some magical forever thing that’s set in stone.. out of billions of people there’s defs more than one person you can vibe with romantically. i do think if something’s meant to be it’ll find a way but it’s not always a straight path. sometimes people need space to grow and level up for themselves and that’s where i’m at rn. i’m doing this for me, and even if things don’t work out i’ll still be proud of how far i’ve come.