I broke up with him so yeah, I’m the one who ended it.
Today my ex came to grab some stuff from my place the place we lived together for six months. He brought a girl with him someone I’ve never met during our entire relationship. he says they’re just friends and I believe him but honestly it’s not about their relationship. That’s his business. It just felt super weird for him to bring some random girl into my home while picking up his stuff. It came off as petty and kinda childish like he was trying to prove he’s moved on.
He didn’t even ask if she could come. He just texted to let me know she’d be tagging along.
I already told him over text how uncomfortable it made me and he did apologize. He seemed genuine like he really didn’t think about how it’d look. But I’m still so annoyed by how awkward the whole thing was. Just needed to rant about this
Last updated on:2025-04-11T17:35:59+05:30
Comments (4)
Sometimes even though we finish the relationship but the remanants of the relation are still in our heart and it takes time for us to Move on. In such case be gentle to your self and Definitely admitting that you were uncomfortable to him is the right thing to do.
Look if he's not trying to be your buddy your feelings are kinda not his problem. He probably needed a hand or wanted to avoid a scene. Or maybe he's just being a jerk. Either way you broke up he's getting his stuff and that's the end of it
I get that he doesn't have to manage my emotions but that doesn't excuse rude behavior. And honestly your comment was also pretty insensitive.
Was she genuinely helpful or was it just for show? And why her specifically when he has other friends? These questions could help you figure out his intentions. If it was just to be mean that's really petty right?