It’s clear now that I’m falling for her and everyone at work knows because of the stuff I’ve done for her. A year ago she found out I had feelings for her and she felt betrayed since she thought we were just work friends. She ran from me for a while and I gave her space. When I felt like she was ready I talked to her face-to-face and told her I love you. I know you’ll say no but I just wanted you to know. She said no and it crushed me. After that I didn’t talk to her for a long time.
Things eventually got less awkward and we started talking again..but only about work stuff. Now she’s showing signs that she might be into me. But I’m not going to bring it up this time I’ll wait for her to come to me. I really don’t want to risk being heartbroken again.
But now I’m wondering—why is she coming back? She knows I’m not rich so I don’t think it’s about money. I found out she’s never had a boyfriend before and doesn’t trust men much according to her friends.
Last updated on:2025-04-14T16:14:27+05:30
Comments (4)
Just keep it slow and don't let your feelings get the best of you.If it's too overwhelming for you now , then it will be too overwhelming for you then also .It's like you will be always be chasing.
Bro you jumped straight to I love you that’s kinda intense. Just chill a bit and take it slow. Maybe ask her out for a meal. If she says yes awesome. If she says no mentally let it go and move on. Don’t go all in about how deeply in love you are let her be the one to say those words first.
She’s probably shy and your straight up I love you might’ve overwhelmed her. Give it time and see if she starts showing more interest.
She might’ve been shocked at first or just looking for an ego boost. Maybe she’s thought it over and wants to test the waters. Could be a lot of things. What really matters is if you love yourself enough to set boundaries and protect your heart from getting hurt again.