just got dumped after seven months she was avoidan

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just got dumped after seven months she was avoidant you know honeymoon phase was fire then boom after valentines day she's out like what the heck I know my anxious attachment didn't help no contact for two weeks it's rough I'm in therapy doing meditation and trying to chill cut off social media trying to deal my goal is to maybe rebuild but only when I'm healed and she's ready anyone else going through this how'd you handle it did it get better fast

Last updated on:2025-04-16T07:21:08+05:30

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KeepitSaral
KeepitSaral 11 mths ago

While it's amazing that you are working on yourself but would recommend don't keep yourself in waiting. It's something that can always leave you empty handed .Rather be ready to start afresh and Look for new beginnings in Life

bubbley
bubbley 11 mths ago

Honestly idk. If she's avoidant and you're anxious attachment that's kinda a red flag. Good you're going to therapy and working on yourself but is she doing the same thing? Does she even wanna fix her issues? If you're both on the same page then fixing things should be chill.

Decentlib
Decentlib 11 mths ago

She's not really feeling it rn. Either way I'm going to therapy for me. It's a win win. Trying to stay positive telling myself she'll get better eventually.