I was seeing this dude for like three months right Everything was chill I thought I cooked for him helped him out we did grocery runs together relationship stuff. He'd ask me to stay over and stuff So I was like okay this is going somewhere and I caught feels Then he hits me with the you're everything I want but I can't commit just wanna be besties' thing Bro it broke me Like you can't friend zone someone after introducing them to everyone kissing me in front of people and doing all that stuff I cut it off cause if you can't call me your girlfriend after three months then I'm out I'm so confused Like am I tripping for wanting exclusivity or something Why would he act like we're a couple say I'm perfect and then just want friendship I don't get it.
Last updated on:2025-04-16T15:55:20+05:30
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fr you did the right thing walking away better now than months or even years later trust me I was with this dude and wish I ended it sooner but I was so into him didn't wanna let go he told me he couldn't be a good bf but I was everything he wanted like a wife to him tho
you dodged a bullet fr. I was in a similar sitch for like three months and looking back a year later I'm so glad it's over. They want all the gf perks but no label that's a whole red flag. Avoidant attachment and no emotional maturity vibes. He'd probably push you away later when you're even more invested. You're not tripping for wanting commitment he's just acting weird thinking that was okay
Next time just be straight up about wanting commitment from the jump. If they're iffy or avoid it they're not on your level. Hope you find your real love soon though. Three months is short but you learned some stuff.
They want the perks when it suits them. Basically you're just convenient and a backup till they find something better then they'll drop you easy. Cause you stayed even when they told you straight up. It's messed up trust me I get it. Three months is nothing for all that you got love bombed. Honestly it hurts now but it'll hurt way worse if you stick around.
you did good walking out. I was in this no label thing for two years cause he was playing games. Now I'm in therapy cause it messed me up.
Always trust your gut. If it feels like you deserve better then bounce