I split with a partner just 3 weeks ago, there's no bad guy, but some of his words may have hurt me and maybe some of my words have hurt him, he said he wanted to grow apart and he wanted to reach something bigger, academic achievements and so on. It's really hard to accept that because i didn't know he had problems he kept in his heart, i told him almost everything but he didn't tell me what he feels, but i guess it's up to each person, i gave up reaching out to him for almost a week now, things are still raw and rough, but i still see him at school, how can i stay calm and peaceful?
Last updated on:2025-04-21T12:59:42+05:30
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You’re dealing with this breakup with so much maturity and reflection. Keep focusing on what brings you peace your strength will carry you through.
You’re handling this situation with so much grace. It’s hard to let go but respecting his wish to grow apart shows how much you care for both of you.
thank you for such kind words, he reached out to me back today, we decided to forgive each other
@EaseTheHeart 🥰
You’ve shown vulnerability by sharing everything with him and that takes courage. Even though he didn’t do the same it doesn’t diminish your openness and strength.
Seeing him at school must be incredibly challenging but remember to take deep breaths and give yourself permission to feel. Time will help ease the hurt.👍
Breakups are so tough especially when there’s no clear bad guy..it’s brave of you to acknowledge both the pain and his need to grow. Give yourself grace as you navigate these raw emotions.
seeing them everyday can be tough...if you both feel that there is no future together then i guess every time you see them remind yourself that they have in all probability moved on and you need to do the same.