so me and my partner been together like fifteen years no marriage no kids big age gap I'm the younger one those years been wild with mad fights I wanted to dip so many times but was broke af plus he'd be chill again and we'd vibe so good he's got a temper tho like when he's mad he's MAD and he's a pro gaslighter but when he's sweet he's SO sweet and all my leaving thoughts just poof also the intimacy is a no-go I like hanging with him when he's nice but the connection's kinda dead the last few days been non stop arguing him blaming me he's like go if you want idc I'll be fine but when I'm like BET he gets all quiet and defensive saying I won't survive out there like wtf he doesn't need me but gets weird when I say I'm out
anyway been saving up and I was so over it I applied for an apartment and got approved the manager is so nice and my friend's gonna help me move I was gonna bounce while he's golfing but I feel SO guilty leaving him we got memories and I kinda love him but not like that way I'm scared of his reaction also feel guilty cuz things have been kinda chill lately part of me is like solo life gonna be fire I can do my own thing but the other part is the guilt the change is gonna be hard and I'm scared how he'll react what y'all think.
Last updated on:2025-04-22T15:20:17+05:30
Comments (4)
Lowkey you already know the move
Change kinda slaps but it's hard tho
You got this fr fr
Be nice to yourself and take care of your mental health
like I get it. I wanna dip but I'm stressing how he'll react when I call to say I'm out. He's gonna be all you're not safe you're a young woman alone you don't know anything I'm not comfy where are you It's gonna be a MESS of a convo. Deep down tho I really wanna bounce get some life experience live solo and be happy. But the apartment's not even ready till May 9th. What if he's suddenly all chill till then tho?
@Jissaboe So like what are your moves. You feeling safe around them tho..Can you even dip outta there
Just block em
@nonameyme Okay yeah I can like we live together. Got approved for an apartment tho. Planning to sign the lease apartment's ready so yeah extra month with him. Not scared to leave just scared of the drama he's gonna cause. He'll be all you're alone you're a girl alone it's so unsafe out there I don't feel comfortable with you alone'.