I keep going over events in my mind trying to figure out why things suddenly changed

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I keep going over events in my mind trying to figure out why things suddenly changed. It was just 4 months ago he made me a part of his life. He had me spending time with his family and then just like that he suddenly became distant. Next thing I know he is enjoying life and sharing kisses with someone else on social media. Never got an explanation. I feel rejected, used and thrown away. I'm longing for the day when this pain is gone.

Last updated on:2025-04-23T12:23:02+05:30

Comments (6)

Mindlesera
Mindlesera 10 mths ago

People who leave without explanation often don’t have the maturity to handle deep connections. That speaks to them not to your value.

Moban213
Moban213 10 mths ago

It’s devastating when someone you trusted suddenly pulls away without reason. You deserve closure but more than that, you deserve peace.

HealingVibes
HealingVibes 10 mths ago

Seeing them move on while you're still processing everything feels unfair but trust that with time the pain will start to fade and you’ll find clarity.

HehailGHG
HehailGHG 10 mths ago

This kind of heartbreak is so painful being left without an explanation can feel like the hardest part. Your feelings are completely valid and healing takes time.

letitgo_user
letitgo_user 10 mths ago

Feel for you. when such a thing happens to us our self worth takes a major hit. You have got to love yourself like nobody else. Dont seek an explanation. There is only one explanation that He is not right for you in the long run and this explanation will stand over and above any explanation he can ever give you. tc

KeepitSaral
KeepitSaral 10 mths ago

Hey I am so sorry for your pain.But just understand the pain won't go itself.It will need you to take certain action.So that the pain can be transcended.Improve your health, Finances, Creativity, Education and celebration.Do activities related to the above, go out and be compassionate and you will be over in no time