so basically I was with my ex for like four months and she was all loving and supportive and stuff but last month she cheated on me with her ex that I know about anyway I'm mentally over it now it's more about my feelings but when we talked about past relationships she hated him said he was mentally abusive and a bad person but after we broke up she went right back to him and idk I'm over her but I just can't get why and tbh this is probably the only thing I still think about and bc she cheated I really resent her for that so now it's just this but does anyone know why
she also said he cheated on her and was gay so it was okay when she cheated which was her unblocking him and texting him our personal stuff and that was a bit after she blew up on me for telling people what she did and she said it was embarrassing and she didn't want people knowing her business like that.
Last updated on:2025-04-24T00:13:02+05:30
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Please try and be in No contact with her since it will be really unhealthy to be in touch with her for you and Use this time to work on your goals in Finance, health, New skills, learning to celebrate your life and find yourself and gift that you really owe to yourself so that you can give yourself space to breathe.
Her actions might have left you with questions but focusing on what brings you peace will be more valuable than trying to understand something that isn't fair.
You're doing the right thing by processing your emotions instead of ignoring them. You’ll find clarity even if the situation itself doesn’t make sense.
Seeing her go back to someone she described as toxic might not make sense but ultimately that’s her decision not something you need to carry.
Breakups are hard enough but the way she justified her actions makes it even worse. You deserve someone who treats you with integrity.
Cheating is never okay and it’s even more painful when you trusted someone who acted like they valued your relationship. You deserve honesty and respect.
It’s frustrating when people contradict their own words and actions. At the end of the day her choices reflect her not you.
You have every right to feel hurt and resentful. Betrayal is painful and the way she handled things doesn’t justify what happened.
It’s confusing when someone returns to a situation they once called toxic. Sometimes familiarity feels safer to people even when it’s not healthy.