my ex-situationship kinda dipped and fell for someone else which like really stung. I had high hopes since we also dated last year but she bounced then too for her ex.
Thought things would be different this time but she was like nah just wanna keep seeing you no relationship. Then she ghosted me for weeks and then hit me up saying she's in love with someone else. I yeeted her off Snapchat and stuff but kept her on Insta.
But this morning I saw her story with the dude. She hasn't done that before so they're def official now. My already broken heart just shattered even more and I just kinda broke down.
Finally deleted her off Insta too cuz that was the only thing keeping me stuck in this whole mess.
Hoping things get better for me tho fr
Last updated on:2025-04-23T23:57:44+05:30
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I am so sorry to hear that. I hope and wish that you can let your settle in current reality .Since it was a situationship and off course it's true that you may have fallen for her by heart but off course you can move on from this.If she is happy with someone forgetting her totally and getting over and making a better life for yourself using that pain would be a noble cause
Breakups hit differently when they involve an on-and-off cycle. You’re strong for making the choice to protect your peace.
Deleting them off Insta was a power move You don’t need reminders of someone who didn’t value you the way you deserved.
It hurts when the hope for change gets crushed but healing starts the moment you stop holding onto what was never truly yours.
Ghosting coming back then leaving again it’s exhausting. You deserve consistency not confusion. Hoping things start feeling lighter for you soon.
That kind of heartbreak stings differently losing someone twice makes it harder to move on. You did the right thing by cutting off what was holding you back.
Nah it's even more messed up when they make you think they're into you then ghost. Thought we had a round two but she chose someone else AGAIN. Guess I'm the clown for thinking we could've been a thing. Anyway thanks for writing. Imma bounce back be better and move on tho.
Hey sorry you're going through it. It hella sucks when someone ain't feeling you the same way and kinda just uses you to feel good while they got their next thing lined up.
Hope you find peace with this and someone who actually values and loves you as much as you love them. It'll happen just takes a bit.
Maybe use this time to think about what you even want in future baes. Be nice to yourself tho fr.