I dipped from this situationship cuz his behavior was sus hiding stuff straight up lying checking out other girls who weren't even my vibe. He'd gaslight and manipulate whenever he messed up. But lowkey feel like it's my fault tho cuz I let him do it. Enabled his BS even manipulated him to stay by playing the victim then hooking up with him. Basically manipulated him by being all submissive making him kinda addicted if that makes sense. Feel like the toxic one even tho he lied and prob cheated. But what's hitting me now is I think he had someone else he was eyeing the whole time and came back to me like pretended we were fully committed just so he wasn't alone while he was trying to get with her. He called me crying one morning saying he still loved me and couldn't handle it being over but now I see he just felt insecure and prob got rejected by her so he called me to cry about that while pretending he was crying ABOUT ME. How messed up is that? I feel SO dumb. SO dumb. Can't even process how awful it is and how it makes me feel.
Worst part is I think I made him feel so responsible for my well-being that he felt he had to "let me down easy" by lying his way out. Like he pitied me so much he infantilized me made me think he still loved me while already having someone else lined up.
Small win tho I finally walked. Two days no texts.
Hoping some of y'all got similar stories? Like someone using you while moving on making you think they loved you till the end and you had to figure out they already had someone else instead of them just being real about it. Or just any relatable stories.
I feel like it's all my fault and it sucks.
Last updated on:2025-04-25T08:23:41+05:30
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Hey hope you are doing better .It feels from your story that you have been through a lot.Hopefully You feel much better soon.We all have kind of similar stories but at the end what matters first is how to let go of the what ifs and regrets.You did whatever you could out of Love and care and that's what a person does in Love.So it's not your fault. In Love a person is supposed to be Vulnerable and nothing wrong about it. Please drop all the ideas that you have formed out of regrets and try and get out of your thinking mind
She may not be single for long but neither will you someone just as rare and special will come along when the timing finally aligns.
You’re handling this with a lot of maturity and understanding even through the heartbreak. That says a lot about you.
It’s painful when feelings are strong but logistics don’t align.
What if thoughts are the hardest to let go of. But even if things didn’t work out it doesn’t take away how special she was to you.
Her principles make her who she is and while that makes you respect her more it doesn’t make the heartbreak any easier.
This one stings when connections hit effortlessly it’s hard to accept that circumstances can still get in the way. You did everything you could.
Timing really is everything and it sucks when life throws obstacles at something that felt so right. Respecting her boundaries is admirable even though it hurts.