met this girl at uni in November and for like two weeks straight we were hanging out every day and hooking up. Then she dipped saying we weren't compatible or whatever and now I can't stop thinking about her.
Sounds kinda cringe but I literally think about her all the time like every single day. We still talk as friends and when we see each other at the club we flirt a lot but when she's sober she's just not into it at all. Seeing her at the club all the time doesn't help me get over her either I go to forget my anxiety and stuff but that's a whole other thing.
It's so messed up how my brain works cuz all my friends are like she totally played me and treated me like trash but I'm still so in love with her. It's literally made me stop eating I've lost so much weight and I have zero motivation to do anything anymore.
Like she curved me last week saying she goes crazy in relationships but I'm still holding onto hope that maybe something could happen between us. She even said "trust me you wouldn't wanna date me" and I'm still obsessed.
Someone pls help me out here.
Last updated on:2025-04-25T13:56:54+05:30
Comments (6)
Sometimes the hardest lesson is accepting that some people aren’t meant to stay no matter how much you want them to.
The fact that she’s warning you about dating her is telling you should believe her words and prioritize your own happiness.
If she’s only showing interest in certain moments but backing away otherwise that inconsistency is a sign. You deserve something solid not mixed signals.
The fact that it’s affecting your health and mindset says a lot your well being is worth more than chasing after someone who isn’t meeting you halfway.
She made it clear that she’s not in the right place for a relationship and as hard as it is letting go might be what’s best for your peace.
It’s tough when your heart lingers on someone who isn’t fully invested. You deserve love that is mutual not one sided longing.