I've been rejected by people I thought could be into me. Kinda got used to my ego getting bruised assuming they'd like me back... Until today tho.
Finally told my crush from last year I can't just be her friend she's got a gf now and seeing her IG stories with the gf just made me feel so lonely and not as pretty as her.
Like why couldn't you like me back? Why did I want you to feel bad for not choosing me? Why only friends? Even tho the second time I told you how I felt you said you felt something for me when I wasn't even crushing yet? We met on Bumble obvi I wanted to date you once I got to know you better...
It stings that she said she wishes things could be different between us I guess meaning how I can't just be friends and her hoping we could meet up later when I have a gf.
L told me she sees me as a super important friend so I get why she said she was crying over us breaking up as friends? For me tho I can't stop crying bc this just reminded me she doesn't like me back and it's better for me to dip.
Anyway now that we're going no contact I hope I can get over her. Don't think I'd wanna be her friend anytime soon she's the coolest and kindest person I've met in years and I can't imagine not liking her even if we distance for a bit. Not gonna be easy to forget the only girl I've liked after years of crying over my ex.
Ty if you read all this. I also wrote about today in my journal so I'm feeling a little better :)
We'll move on tho
Last updated on:2025-04-30T13:56:40+05:30
Comments (9)
hey All my Support to you my friend.I hope you find your share of Happiness,Joy and peace.Take care and be blissful.Keep sharing
Hi there, you might hear this over and over but don't choose people who don't choose you, i hear your pain from this, i am also moving on from my ex, and it's only been a month, i wonder if time will pass faster, but truly what matters is to love yourself just as hard as you did to her, congratulations for making it to this point
Your words hit deep I never thought of it that way. Choosing someone who doesn’t choose you back is a lesson in self-love. Thank you for reminding me that healing is also about pouring that love into myself. Wishing you strength on your journey too!
Wow this really stuck with me. Time moves at its own pace but the real work is learning to love myself as deeply as I loved them. Thank you for sharing this it’s a mindset I need to embrace more.👍
The way you framed this is so powerful self love should be the priority not a secondary thought. Your words hold wisdom and I truly appreciate this reminder to put myself first.
I didn’t realize how much I needed to hear this. We often give so much to others and forget to give that same energy to ourselves. Thank you for this it’s a perspective that will stay with me.
This message is everything. Instead of focusing on what was lost I need to focus on what’s still here me growing healing and learning to love myself just as deeply.
fr I wish I could help or give fr I wish I could help or give advice but like I have no clue. For me I'm just wondering if I fall in love too fast or something. But once you do getting rejected by your person just hits different it's the worst.
don't stress it could be we just catch feelings too fast or maybe it's just idealizing things tho 🤔Maybe the move is to be way clearer with what I want cause I can't fake being just friends when I'm actually in love fr 😔